Meet Jose

I’m in my late 40’s and got my first vitiligo spot in my early 30’s. I knew my chances of getting it were pretty high because it runs in my family. My mom, her mom, and two aunts have it! The part of Mexico where my dad is from ‘the darker you are’ is a reflection of how much time you spend working outside on your ranch and property making you a ‘hard worker’. I used to love to represent that and get as dark as possible in the summertime and turn the most beautiful shade of brown.

With Vitiligo I can’t do that anymore and once told my dad I felt I was losing my identity and that part of our family. He calmly said, “as long as I have that pride and spirit in my heart people will always see that come through no matter my skin color” and it all made sense!

My first spot appeared on my finger and when I showed my mom, she said that’s exactly how it started with my relatives.

Honestly it took some time to come to terms with my own vitiligo, but I love it now and actually feel like it suits my personality making me even more unique.

I’ve been very fortunate to have a wonderful support group and partner so on those rare days where the looks and stares bother me, they have a loving word.

It’s funny most days I forget I have Vitiligo until a stare, comment, or question will remind me. I always answer with a smile because the next time they see someone with Vitiligo they’ll greet them with understanding and compassion. In a way, vitiligo has made me prouder and more aware of who I am!

Every vitiligo journey is different - it’s ok to feel what you feel but know you’re not alone and there’s someone out there who’s gone through the same thing and understands. Take life and your journey one spot at a time!