Meet Cole

My mum first noticed my vitiligo when I was 1 year old. I didn’t notice it myself until I was playing soccer, and a kid from my team asked, “What’s that on your skin?” I told him I was just born with skin like this. After that, I became more aware and started hiding my vitiligo because I didn’t want to be asked questions.

My diagnosis restricts me from certain outdoor activities, such as swimming. I’ve been teased about my skin by friends when we hang out, and we laugh because I know they’re celebrating my difference. However, online teasing feels like an attack because it seems like people are trying to break me down, so I limit my time online.

When I’m attacked, I feel stressed and disengage. I get quiet, and although it doesn’t help, I feel safer. I overcome these challenges by focusing on my strengths, like playing soccer, golf, and snowboarding. People have asked if I was burned in a fire, so I educate them that it’s the skin I was born with.

I’m working on improving my mental health, and being in nature seems to work best. I don’t always have the confidence I’d like, and vitiligo plays a role in this. I plan on improving my confidence by setting academic and athletic goals. I feel proud when I accomplish things despite my skin.

I tried light therapy and steroid cream but stopped because I accepted it’s a part of who I am. In relationships, others may cast me as “weird” and don’t take the time to get to know me.

I appreciate friends who see beyond my skin and discover that I’m loyal, kind, and fun.

My mum took me to clinics when I pursued treatment and supported me when I stopped. She believes in my potential and pushes me, not letting me play small in life. She’s been a single mum since I was 5 and ensured I could play soccer, golf, and snowboard.

My advice to others with vitiligo is to focus on your strengths and not spend energy on what others think. Spend your energy on being mindful of how you talk to yourself and building confidence from the inside out.